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Love, Austin


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Love, Austin


Austin, locally curated

Sophisticated simplicity

Austin is full of people worth meeting, you just need the right room, or the right introduction. We've built our approach around getting real, local singles in front of each other without the noise of an app. Here's how we do it.

I.

Speed Dating

A handful of Austin singles, one great local venue, and seven minutes at a time to find out if there's something there. No profiles, no swiping, just a conversation and a read of the room.

II.

Curated Introductions

Not everyone wants a room full of strangers. For daters who'd rather skip straight to someone worth their time, our team gets to know you first and makes the introduction, thoughtfully, not algorithmically.

III.

Advice & Date Coaching

Sometimes the hardest part isn't meeting someone, it's knowing what to do next. Our coaches work with you one on one to build the confidence and clarity dating actually takes.

Downtown Austin  ·  South Congress  ·  Oak Hill

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Press

Coverage of our approach to speed dating and curated introductions, as a company.

marie claire

"It's actually pretty easy; the seven minutes fly by so quickly you barely have time to introduce yourself before a host appears and quietly taps the man to move down the line (in a bid for subtlety, nights are void of stopwatches, bells and whistles)."

CBSNew York

"They are changing the speed dating scene and attracting a more sophisticated crowd than ever before. Their approach to matchmaking offers a fresh alternative to contracts and commitments."

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How It Works


IN-PERSON SPEED DATING

How It Works


IN-PERSON SPEED DATING

The details

How In-Person Speed Dating Works

We keep it low-key. No name tags, no forced icebreakers, no over-the-top party trimmings. Just a comfortable, well-hosted room where meeting someone new doesn't feel like a production. Think less "singles event," more a private club atmosphere for Austin locals who take dating seriously without taking themselves too seriously.

Before the event

Once you register, you'll get an email inviting you to log into your mobile Smart-Card. As the event kicks off, log in to your scorecard and get started. You'll choose who you'd like to meet again and to what degree, with until midnight to submit your final selections. Once the clock strikes midnight, head back to the platform to see your matches. No app required. It works right from your phone, tablet, or computer, straight from our website.

The night of

Head to the venue at the published start time. We don't rush the start of the speed dating portion. We like to give everyone a few minutes to settle in, grab a drink, and mingle first. Our hosts will walk you through your Smart-Card scorecard and answer any questions, including, yes, where the bar is. Once you're seated, the format is simple: one side stays at the table, the other rotates every six to seven minutes. Your scorecard lets you see who's attending, upload your photo, make your picks, and get notified of matches, all from your phone.

After the event

The speed dating portion wraps, but the night doesn't have to. Stay as long as you'd like to keep mingling.

We built this around one idea: real people, meeting in person, in a city that's actually worth the effort. That's Austin speed dating, done right.

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Frequently Asked Questions


IN-PERSON SPEED DATING

Frequently Asked Questions


IN-PERSON SPEED DATING

Everything you're wondering

Frequently Asked Questions

19 years in Austin · 2,023+ verified events · Eventbrite Top Organizer

Who is this for?

People who actually love living here. Who have a favorite spot on South Congress, a go-to patio in East Austin, strong opinions about the best queso in town. We draw daters who are confident, curious, and genuinely connected to their neighborhoods, and who want to meet someone who feels the same way about this city. If Austin is home and you want to explore it with someone, you're exactly who we built this for.

Getting started

What is SpeedAustin Dating?

A low-key, well-hosted approach to speed dating, built for Austin locals. No stopwatches, no whistles, no forced icebreakers. Just a relaxed room where meeting someone new feels comfortable instead of like a competition. We've been doing this in Austin for 19 years, with over 2,023 verified events hosted and an Eventbrite Top Organizer designation to show for it.

What type of people can I expect to meet?

Confident, engaged, a little adventurous. Daters who set the trend rather than follow it. Our crowd is shaped in part by our venues, so expect the kind of people who'd choose that spot on their own.

How do I reserve my place?

Select an event from the Event Schedule, register online, and you're set. No paper tickets. You'll get a confirmation email and your name will be on the guest list.

Community and screening

Do you screen your speed daters?

In 19 years serving Austin daters, we've noticed something consistent: the more genuinely kind someone is to our hosts and fellow daters, the better their experience. It's a bit like a private club. We're looking for people who bring good energy to the room. If we don't think someone would be a good fit for our daters, we'll respectfully decline service.

How do I get invited to complimentary events?

By being a great addition to the room. We don't judge by looks or match results. We pay attention to how you treat our staff, hosts, and fellow daters. Standout daters get invited back with discounts or complimentary events, on us.

How do I get banned?

We have zero tolerance for behavior that makes fellow daters, hosts, or staff uncomfortable. Dating is emotional and everyone has different taste, but basic kindness isn't optional, and we take feedback about it seriously.

What if I'm not on my best behavior?

We have zero tolerance for rudeness, of any kind. We attract great daters, but if someone isn't a good fit for the room, they won't be invited back. We think our daters appreciate that effort, and we hope you will too.

Are you affiliated with any 'Meet-Up' groups?

Meet-Up is a great free service for connecting people with shared interests, but we're not affiliated with it or any similar groups. Some companies promote events through Meet-Up or Craigslist just to redirect you to their own site. We don't.

During the event

What is a SpeedAustin Dating 'Date Mate'?

A Date Mate means you've got a match. Our mobile Smart-Card lets you choose who you'd like to meet again and to what degree, with until midnight to submit your final picks. At midnight, log back in to see your matches. No app needed. It works from your phone, tablet, or computer, right on our website. Your scorecard also lets you see who's attending, upload your photo, make your picks, and get notified of matches, all from your phone.

How long will I chat with my prospective Date Mate?

About six to seven minutes at a time. For larger events, that may shrink by a minute or two to fit everyone in.

So little time, so much to say?

Don't worry. Most people know within minutes whether there's a spark. You can always keep chatting at intermission or after the event. Just have fun with it.

How will I know if I have any Date Mates, and how do I contact them?

Submit your picks via your mobile scorecard by midnight. Check back after midnight to see your matches. You'll get their first name and email. We recommend using an email you don't mind sharing, ideally not one tied to your name or workplace.

Can I return for free if I don't get a match at an event?

Rather than offering blanket free returns, we invite daters who bring great energy back with discounts or complimentary events. It's our way of keeping the room full of people others actually want to meet.

Logistics

What happens if the event is sold out?

Spots go fast. Email info@speedaustindating.com to ask about the wait list, and keep an eye on the site. Reservations sometimes open back up last minute. We're always updating the calendar.

What time should I show up for the event?

Published start times are listed in the event description. We wait for everyone to arrive before starting, so don't rush getting there. It's a good excuse to grab a drink, chat with the hosts, and settle in.

Is food included with my ticket?

Some venues offer light bites at their discretion. It varies by location.

How long does an event last?

About two hours including intermission, depending on the number of daters attending.

What happens when the event is over?

Whatever you want. Most daters say that's when the night really gets going. Stick around and keep mingling as long as you'd like.

How many people will I meet?

Events typically run 16 to 40 daters, depending on the night.

Practical info

Can I pay without using the website?

Payment is only accepted through our secure, encrypted online checkout. Questions? Call us at 1-866-WE-SPEED.

What should I wear?

Whatever makes you feel good. We just ask that you dress with the room in mind.

I'm older or younger than your listed age range. Can I still attend?

Absolutely. Our age ranges are guidelines, not hard rules. Pick whichever range feels right, and if nothing fits, reach out and we'll help.

Will I be photographed or filmed?

Never without your consent. Some special events are filmed, but those are invite-only and clearly marked in advance.

Tell me about your Cancer Awareness promotion.

We're proud to partner with The Joan Gaeta Foundation for Lung Cancer Awareness through our "Nights for Suzanne" events. Donate to any cancer charity in the amount of your ticket, let us know, and we'll add you to the guest list for your desired event.

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Curated Introdutions


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Curated Introdutions


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Since 2007

Curated Introductions

We wanted a fresh alternative to endless forms, long contracts, and hours of consultations. Every week, we meet a great new group of singles through our events alone, which means we're not scrambling to find your match at a bar or a mall. We're choosing from an already great crowd. It's why busy daters find our approach efficient, personal, and worth it.

Choose your package

Include Me!

$149 / year

Become a member and get considered for one of our curated Date Nights. Membership doesn't guarantee a set number of matches, but members get priority over event attendees being considered for the program.

Purchase

Simplify Me!

$417

Two pre-arranged Date Nights, matched on mutual goals and interests. Includes a personal conversation with our team and complimentary event admission for the duration of your package.

Purchase

Date Me!

$522

Four pre-arranged Date Nights, plus everything in Simplify Me! and access to our concierge service: fashion advice, date-spot recommendations, and more.

Purchase

Indulge Me!

$662

Six pre-arranged Date Nights, our full concierge service, and a sampling of one of our Advice & Coaching packages. The most complete version of what we do.

Purchase

Ready to have us arrange your next date? Here's how it goes. We take the time to actually understand who you are, what you're looking for, and who you'd want to spend an evening with, so we can find someone who complements both. Email info@speedaustindating.com with a bit about yourself and your goals, and if we think we can help, we'll send details on how to get started.

After you register, you'll get a confirmation and the chance to share your background and preferences with us, by phone or online, whichever you prefer. All communication with your Date Mate happens through us until your date itself. Think of it as a return to something simpler: meeting someone new, arranged by someone you trust, at a place you choose.

Our team selects from a genuinely diverse pool: singles from our events, our networking nights, and fellow daters in the curated introductions program. Mutual interest matters most, and it shapes how quickly your first match comes together. One perk of the package: unlimited complimentary admission to our speed dating events for as long as your package lasts.

Once we've confirmed things on both ends, we'll coordinate schedules and make the reservation, at one of our preferred spots or your own favorite place. When the night arrives, we'll send you the details: venue, time, your Date Mate's first name, and a short description of who you're meeting. If you'd like to see them again, let us know and we'll pass along contact info. If not, just tell us "next, please."

Frequently asked questions

How is this different from traditional matchmaking?

Simple, social, and easy to take part in. Rather than lengthy consultations or complex processes, this is a straightforward way to meet someone for a relaxed, one on one outing, arranged from our active community.

Where do introductions come from?

Our active, engaged community: people we meet through social events and fellow introduction members. We don't rely on large databases or outside sourcing.

What information is shared before an introduction?

First names only. Once mutual interest is confirmed, we coordinate venue, date, and time, and share those details along with a brief description. Contact details are only exchanged if both people choose to, after meeting.

Do you run background, credit, or employment checks?

No. We don't evaluate anyone on income or financial status. Our focus is a comfortable, respectful environment, and how people show up socially. Everyone you meet is a registered guest of our events or curated introductions program; we don't recruit from bars, clubs, or gyms.

Are social events included in my package?

Yes. Access to our social events during your active package is included, a great way to meet more people and get more comfortable in the community.

Do I have to meet at a venue you choose?

Not at all. Suggest anywhere you feel comfortable, or we're happy to recommend one of our trusted partner locations.

What if I need to cancel or don't show up?

Please give us as much notice as possible; we're happy to reschedule. Missing a confirmed introduction without notice may result in forfeiture of remaining introductions in your package.

Is there a time limit to use my introductions?

Use them at a comfortable pace within the duration of your active package.

Can I bring a friend?

Not on your Date Night itself, but we do offer Double Dates: you and a friend each choose a package, we handle the details, and we send the four of you off for a night out together.

What's the typical age range?

Generally similar to our social events: typically early twenties through early forties.

What's the concierge service?

Think of it as extra support: fashion tips, relationship advice, grooming recommendations, dinner reservations, whatever helps you show up as your best self.

What if someone behaves inappropriately?

Zero tolerance for rudeness or inappropriate behavior, of any kind. Our community is built around respectful, engaging people. We believe the room matters, so if someone isn't a good fit, they won't be invited back.

How do I get started?

Email info@speedaustindating.com with a bit about yourself and your goals, and we'll send details for purchasing the right package.

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Advice Packages


Advice Packages


One on one guidance

Advice & Coaching

Sometimes the hardest part isn't meeting someone. It's knowing what to do next. Our specialists have spent decades working one on one with daters, and they'll help you figure out your next move, whether that's your profile, your patterns, or your relationship itself.

Profile Me!

For anyone newly single or getting back into dating, this package helps you avoid the pitfalls we've seen over and over. A miscalibrated photo, a misleading bio, a profile that undersells you: small things make a big difference between real matches and radio silence. You'll get a 90 minute video or phone consultation with a full review of your dating app and social profiles, plus concrete tips to strengthen how you present yourself.

All About Me!

If you're connecting with people but your dates keep plateauing, this one's for you. We'll dig into how you're approaching dates, where things tend to stall, and how to actually move a connection forward instead of watching it fizzle. Includes everything in Profile Me!, plus deeper guidance on presentation and communication, from texting etiquette to knowing when and how to reach out.

Relationship Me!

Once you're dating exclusively or in a relationship, a different set of questions shows up. This package is built for working through what's actually in front of you right now, not years of open-ended sessions. Because when it comes to dating and relationships, what you need can shift week to week.

General questions

What is SpeedAustin Dating's Advice & Coaching?

A dating and relationship advice service built on more than 18 years of matchmaking experience. We've helped hundreds of thousands of singles believe in themselves, and in turn, they've taught us plenty about perseverance.

What makes your staff so knowledgeable?

Our team works directly with daters every day through our events and curated introductions programs, guiding them before, during, and after their relationships. That close, ongoing involvement is what gives our advice its real-world edge.

I'm an active dater, how can this benefit me?

Dating evolves quickly, and what worked yesterday may not resonate today. We offer current, personalized insight to help you stay grounded, confident, and adaptable in a fast-moving dating world.

Will I be talking to a licensed therapist?

Some of our advisors hold advanced educational backgrounds, but it's their hands-on experience with real daters that sets them apart: decades of lived, practical expertise navigating real relationship challenges.

How are sessions scheduled?

Once you register for a package, our team reaches out to arrange your session at a time that works for you, on our private online platform or by phone, whichever you prefer.

Are packages open to everyone, and what if I need more time afterward?

Yes, our packages are open to all orientations and relationship situations. And if you finish your package and still want support, you're welcome to purchase additional time to continue the conversation.

Profile Me! FAQ

Will small tweaks to my profile really make a difference?

Absolutely, you only have seconds to make a lasting impression. 86% of daters agree full or medium-length photos outperform headshots alone, and men photographed outdoors tend to get more responses than those photographed indoors, while women often see the opposite. Writing matters too: 75% of daters are turned off by spelling errors, and 56% wouldn't date someone with poor grammar. Small fixes, real results.

I have no dating experience, or I'd rather not do this online, can you still help?

Definitely, on both counts. If you're new to dating, Profile Me! is the perfect starting point for a polished, confident profile. And if online dating just isn't for you, know that 58% of singles actually prefer meeting in person; we can shift the focus entirely to in-person first impressions, wardrobe, body language, and communication instead.

All About Me! FAQ

How do I know when the right person has actually come along?

One of the most common struggles in a social-media-saturated dating world. We'll get to know you and your relationship history, helping you recognize when something genuine is in front of you, and how to nurture it into something lasting rather than moving on too quickly.

Can you help me figure out if my relationship is healthy, or how to grow one that's still new?

Yes, either direction. Whether you're a few months into something promising and want to build it into something lasting, or unsure whether outside opinions about your relationship are right, we'll help you evaluate communication, respect, and mutual support clearly and compassionately, so you can make choices aligned with your own well-being.

Relationship Me! FAQ

Can I use my consultation hours flexibly?

Yes, use your time however serves you best. Many daters extend earlier sessions for guidance through first dates, online chats, or the early stages of something new.

Can you help reignite a long relationship, or navigate a big step like moving in together?

Both, happily. If the spark has faded after years together, we'll help you identify what shifted and how to restore it. And if you're moving in together and feeling anxious, we'll help you build balance and a shared space that strengthens your connection rather than blurring it.